All things begin with these precepts and end there as well. Be happy, be healthy, and be you. Sounds relatively simple, adversely very many of us are focused on being accepted, boo’d up, and rich.
Since this whole blog is about the whole you let’s dig right in. It is human nature to to desire acceptance. That’s why we form friendships, social organizations and gangs. We seek acceptance from our parents, bosses, and peers. The American culture is all about fitting in, wearing the latest, being informed on the latest gossip and television shows. The programming surrounding us has created a pattern to follow the follower, while the leaders, individuals, are labeled crazy, weird or crooked (or the powers-at-be knock you off.) Think about some the greats, Jesus, Michael Jackson, Beethoven, Coco Chanel, Mussolini, Donald Trump all who went against the grain. Celebrities who do their own thing unapologetically, first of all have accepted themselves, but are the most talked about, hence the most famous. The flip side is not being okay with who and how you are, dis ease, which leads to disease. Ever notice how happy healthy people are? And how unhappy the unhealthy are? The best part however, of self acceptance, is when you accept you, most others will as well. And if someone doesn't accept you for who and what you are, phuck em!
So let’s move on to bae. Marriage is a confirmation that two people accept and love each other unconditionally. Hopefully you chose to love and accept yourself first before involving someone else. A person cannot be happily married if they are not happy with self; it is almost impossible to be happy with anyone if you are not happy with yourself. I can’t imagine how much a person would enjoy being a newlywed without having the physical agility to consummate the union…ijs. Nothing against those who desire and decide to be married while physically restricted to get it on. Now lastly but definitely not least, is being YOU in your relationship. I believe what happens in many relationships, marital or dating, is that we tend to display the person we desire to be and who we think the other party is looking for. We walk around with these mask on “Love, love, love…” and then the mask comes off and it’s more like “Latin, latin, latin.” Last I remember Latin was not a spoken language, one meant to be read. Ain’t nobody got time to read people when we have been methodically blessed with beautiful instruments called mouths that have the unique ability to articulate the products, of our minds aka thoughts, and the byproducts called emotions. Be yourself how ever effed up that person may be. That way your mate will know what they are getting themselves into and make the decision whether you are someone and something (s)he can love, tolerate and operate with successfully.
Now, according to the law of attraction, when you get happy, you get laid and paid…. I swear I am not making this up. Abundance is abundance… and when you ask for and allow abundance to pour into your life experience, it covers every area. (Like that person who puts hot-sauce on everything. LOL) If you’re broke, you may not agree with this statement, more than likely because you have a poor mindset, but here it goes… wealth is not measured by money or materials things, wealth too is a mindset. Manny Koshbin says rich is having money, while wealth is having that which money can’t buy. Happiness my friends is not available for purchase; it is simply a choice to make. Wanna get rich? Get happy, get healthy first. Having a shit load of money and you can’t get out of bed or into someone else’s sucks.
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