Breaking News: It's OK To Make Mistakes

BREAKING NEWS!

Give your self a break! If you could have done different you would have. We generally make the best decision we can at the time with the information we were working with. We ALL make mistakes; to err is human (to forgive divine). So while we're at it let's give those around us a break as well. 

It seems like people hold others accountable to a higher standard than they hold themselves. We hold our parents to a higher standard. We hold our children to the highest standard, when we usually haven't set such an example for them to follow. If I am not mistaken, mistakes aren't age or any demographic specific. I believe that there is really is no such thing as making mistakes. There are opportunities to learn, grow and develop. 

We are all works in progress. Moreover, be forgiving of yourself first and then begin to forgive those around you. One the most powerful books I have read, "A Course In Miracles", teaches that forgiveness is the key to happiness. By show of hands, who wants happiness??? Go ahead no one's looking... And if they are phuck 'em! They need some of this good juju too. Matter of fact, go ahead email this blog to them. (That's the cute little envelope at the bottom of this post.) 

Now go ahead and make some mistakes and smile thinking that you are being blessed with the opportunity to be a better you. I love you. I believe in you. I believe that WE will WIN!

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Procrastination is Masturbation: Your Phucking Yourself in the End

DeMarco and Timothy Lister said it best “there are a million ways to lose a work day, but not even a single way to get one back. “

Everyday I think “I need to blog… today!” In the utopia of my mind, I am sharing a new blog with you daily. I have a plethora of information and anecdotes to share. What is the problem? Time? We, rather I have PLENTY of available time. Don’t know how to prioritize? Please believe, as a trained organizer I know how to prioritize and design a course of action. What is the real issue here? What are you spending your time on? Honestly? *head drops looks up*  Instagram,  Facebook,  YouTube , and google-ing everything under the sun.  Somedays I am job hunting and applying for jobs I have no interest in, but the choir’s homily blurring my site of MY goals. (Another day's blog) Procrastination is quite popular; I'm doing it right in the midst of this blog.

How do we identify this life-sucking bug?

Here are some of the major symptoms you have been bitten…

Numero uno is avoiding unpleasant activities or possible results.

• What if I mess up?


• I don't wanna do it (all of a sudden we're kids again).


• Why me?

Second up to bat is excuses disguised as reasons.

• I don’t have enough time available.


• I need _______before I can do it.


• I'm not in the right environment.


• I don't feel like it.

Then there is indulging in distractions.

• Social Networking and/or Web-surfing (probably top of your list huh?)


• Watching TV, Movies


• Reading


• "Good timing" with friends


• Cleaning up (the thing that’s usually avoided til you have a project to avoid more)


• Sleeping (I am the QUEEN of naps!)

Before I take another opportunity to NOT finish this post, let’s sum this up with a

Plan Against Procrastination

1. FORGIVE ourselves for procrastinating, not meeting deadlines, leaving stuff undone, etc.


2. GET BUSY. Having lots to do leads to more getting done, ironically.


3. Make a CHECKLIST. Don't check it twice, cross it off!


4. Phuck PERFECTION! Doing something is better than having a "perfect" nothing.


5. Write out an "Unschedule" (Click the word to find out more)


6. REWARD ourselves. Yay! I get something because I completed something.

Now we have a plan, let's get started immediately. No more phucking  around. We can't keep sitting around expecting success to come... SUCCESS IS AWAITING US! I Believe That We Will Win!

In the meantime and in between time be happy, be haelthy, be you. I love you!

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