Showing posts with label success secrets. Show all posts
Showing posts with label success secrets. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 16, 2016

DIY: How To Be A Great Leader

Do you consider yourself a leader? Well if you are not sure there are two precepts that preclude a leader. One a leader must have followers, but more importantly a leader must be able to lead themselves. If you can't lead yourself, how could you lead others. Today, we will use Dr. Ray Russell's Personal Leadership Model.


Dr. Russell interviewed 200 people to piece together this 5 point model. The first step is to create a personal mission statement. What is your vision? Read my blog "Your Vision Needs Clarity" for more that subject. A business or people without vision will perish. This is what you deem as your purpose in life.

Now that we have a mission statement , we will continue on treating our selves as a business and write out a personal business plan. Don't panic, this can be easy. Lets write out a list of 5 to 10 things we desire, intellectually,  physically, spiritually, and of course, financially. Under each goal determine 3 or 4 steps that can propel you in that direction.

Ok, so we know why here, what we came to do, now we need the energy to make it happen. We have to develop personal energy. My morning begins with qi qong, meditation, journaling, reading, yoga and a walk/run, drinking plenty of water. I do all this to build my mental, physical and spiritual energy up for the day. I recommend eating balanced meals including plenty of raw foods and vegetables. Having all your dreams come true won't do you any good if you have no energy.

The fourth point in the Personal Leadership Model is exercising personal empowerment. It is über important that you love what you do. In addition we need to have performance empowerment, being able to the get the job done, and interactive empowerment, being able get along with others. We have all seen it. Its that guy who knows his stuff, but can't carry a decent conversation when the meeting is over. Or how about the charismatic guy who everybody loves, but we all know he's not going produce real results. Being an effective leader definitely requires strong interpersonal skills.

To bring it all full circle is the final principle of leading by example. Just like with children that "do as I say, not as I do" is a bunch of bologna. We leaders have to thoroughly model our high level of standard to exemplify what we expect from those around us.  Furthermore, a true leader produces other leaders.

Leadership skills is what I believe is required to take person from S-quadrant, self-employed/small business owner, to the the business owner in the B-quadrant. You must be able to do duplicate yourself and delegate, otherwise business will not operate when you are not present. If you are anything like me you are working your way to being an Investor, handling business from from your yacht. I believe that we will win!

Be Happy. Be Healthy.  Be You!

Monday, July 18, 2016

Breaking News: It's OK To Make Mistakes


BREAKING NEWS!


Give your self a break! If you could have done different you would have. We generally make the best decision we can at the time with the information we were working with. We ALL make mistakes; to err is human (to forgive divine). So while we're at it let's give those around us a break as well. 

It seems like people hold others accountable to a higher standard than they hold themselves. We hold our parents to a higher standard. We hold our children to the highest standard, when we usually haven't set such an example for them to follow. If I am not mistaken, mistakes aren't age or any demographic specific. I believe that there is really is no such thing as making mistakes. There are opportunities to learn, grow and develop. 

We are all works in progress. Moreover, be forgiving of yourself first and then begin to forgive those around you. One the most powerful books I have read, "A Course In Miracles", teaches that forgiveness is the key to happiness. By show of hands, who wants happiness??? Go ahead no one's looking... And if they are phuck 'em! They need some of this good juju too. Matter of fact, go ahead email this blog to them. (That's the cute little envelope at the bottom of this post.) 

Now go ahead and make some mistakes and smile thinking that you are being blessed with the opportunity to be a better you. I love you. I believe in you. I believe that WE will WIN!


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Wednesday, July 13, 2016

Stay Focused!

To continue with yesterday's blog Hey Entrepreneur, Your Vision Needs FOCUS! 

Focus is essential to success. My most successful mentors constantly told me that I needed to focus on thing, but for years I resisted.  (And I am secretly still in my own disguised way. lol) Focus changes things when you are in operation on a daily, weekly and annual basis. The level of production a nd achievement is higher when a person is focus. Laser beam focus. If you don't understand what that means, google it and replicate it in your thoughts and actions. The formula is simple...

Follow
One
Course
Until
Success

In the meantime and in between, remember I believe in you! I love you! I believe that we will win!



Tuesday, July 12, 2016

Hey Entrepreneur, You're Vision Needs FOCUS!


As a serial entrepreneur I have see my share of business start ups, breakdowns and everything between. If you are an entrepreneur, first let me congratulate you for your courage. Its easy to get a job where someone else responsible for making the real decisions, taking the risks, providing the goals and roadmap to get there. Yes, a job may provide a sense of security, but if it's security you want , "We'll put you in a corner, cover you with a sheet, bring you 3 meals a day, look after you, care for you, feed you, protect you, don't let anything happen to you and you'll probably live to be one 100!" 




So this blog is for the pioneers, the risk takers, those not afraid to step out of the box or jump in the deep end. Being self-employed has it bumps in the road, but definiteness of purpose can pave the way. Having clarity and focus as an entrepreneur is eminent because there is no one there holding your hand, supervising or holding you accountable. It's all up to you. 

My focus today is to school you on the simple precepts I learned years ago and I constantly revisit. Every organization needs to understand and clearly articulate these tenets. Below you will find a list of questions to help you gain effective focus. Grab some paper and pen to write down the questions and the answers. 

  1. IDEA-What is it you do for your customer? Specifically describe, in detail, what product or service you are providing. 
  2. BENEFIT- What's in it for them...that is better than the competition? Your idea should ease or eliminate a pain for the consumer. In other words, what specific need are you fulfilling.
  3. TARGET- Who is your target consumer? How can they be separated from others? Again be specific as possible. How old? Income bracket? Geographical location? Spending habits?
  4. PERCEPTION- How do you want to be perceived? Perception can be some folks reality; be careful of the picture you paint of your self and your organization. Branding 
  5. REWARD- What's in it for you? Is it personal fulfillment, God given purpose and talent, to change the life of someone else? Your reward usually fulfills your why. Read my blog, What's Your WHY? 
Once you successfully answer these questions with as much specificity as possible, a plan will unfold before you. We'll call it our Mini Business Plan. Focus on following that plan. And your reward will manifest as well. What we desire, desires us. I believe in you. I love you. Be happy, be healthy, be you!





Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Procrastination is Masturbation: Your Phucking Yourself in the End


DeMarco and Timothy Lister said it best “there are a million ways to lose a work day, but not even a single way to get one back. “


Everyday I think “I need to blog… today!” In the utopia of my mind, I am sharing a new blog with you daily. I have a plethora of information and anecdotes to share. What is the problem? Time? We, rather I have PLENTY of available time. Don’t know how to prioritize? Please believe, as a trained organizer I know how to prioritize and design a course of action. What is the real issue here? What are you spending your time on? Honestly? *head drops looks up*  Instagram,  Facebook,  YouTube , and google-ing everything under the sun.  Somedays I am job hunting and applying for jobs I have no interest in, but the choir’s homily blurring my site of MY goals. (Another day's blog) Procrastination is quite popular; I'm doing it right in the midst of this blog.


How do we identify this life-sucking bug?

Here are some of the major symptoms you have been bitten…


Numero uno is avoiding unpleasant activities or possible results.

  • What if I mess up?

  • I don't wanna do it (all of a sudden we're kids again).

  • Why me?


Second up to bat is excuses disguised as reasons.

  • I don’t have enough time available.

  • I need _______before I can do it.

  • I'm not in the right environment.

  • I don't feel like it.

Then there is indulging in distractions.

  • Social Networking and/or Web-surfing (probably top of your list huh?)

  • Watching TV, Movies

  • Reading

  • "Good timing" with friends

  • Cleaning up (the thing that’s usually avoided til you have a project to avoid more)

  • Sleeping (I am the QUEEN of naps!)

Before I take another opportunity to NOT finish this post, let’s sum this up with a

Plan Against Procrastination

  1. FORGIVE ourselves for procrastinating, not meeting deadlines, leaving stuff undone, etc.

  2. GET BUSY. Having lots to do leads to more getting done, ironically.

  3. Make a CHECKLIST. Don't check it twice, cross it off!

  4. Phuck PERFECTION! Doing something is better than having a "perfect" nothing.

  5. Write out an "Unschedule" (Click the word to find out more)

  6. REWARD ourselves. Yay! I get something because I completed something.
Now we have a plan, let's get started immediately. No more phucking  around. We can't keep sitting around expecting success to come... SUCCESS IS AWAITING US! I Believe That We Will Win!

In the meantime and in between time be happy, be haelthy, be you. I love you!